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February 2011

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9 Inch Heels: The Hobbling of Women or Just a Fashion Trend? → womanist-musings.com

I stay away from fashion trends because I am more about physical comfort than anything else.  I do know the fact that everyone is wearing leggings means that the 80’s are back ( yeah, yeah I know an updated version) but short of the very obvious, I have no idea what is going down the runway.  I was scanning quickly through Jezebel, as I do every couple of days, when I saw a story that caught may attention. Apparently the soon to be responsible for torn ligaments, bunions and sprained ankles, Sky Heel is coming to a shoe store near you.


Available in sparkly red or gold for under 100 dollars, the Sky High measures in with a nine inch heel.  Manufacturers claim that the shoe was inspired “by the catwalk for the sidewalk.” I have seen some ridiculous shoes in my time but this just takes the cake.  How is anyone supposed to walk in these shoes?  While women do indeed have the choice whether or not to wear this monstrosity it feels very much to me like a modern day intentional hobbling of women.  All that one could possibly do wearing these, is teeter along and certainly never move fast enough to be able to escape any threat — but hasn’t that been the point of women’s footwear for centuries?

I also think that the potential damage to female bodies should not be over looked.  We are sold the line that one has to suffer to look good, but wearing these will not lead to a case of short term pain, but in fact, permanently hobble the woman that chooses to wear them on a regular basis. I can think of no article of male clothing that has this kind of consequence. The woman that puts these on her feet is a dupe of patriarchy.   Everyday we are encouraged to perform a very specific form of womanhood and though it may appear to be natural to us, in many cases it serves to maintain male supremacy. Feeling good about yourself should never come from what you are wearing (are you listening What Not To Wear?), but from things like personal accomplishments, integrity and self love.

Agreed.  This is just absurd.  

Listen, I love fashion.  Probably more than I care to admit.  But I just don’t understand high heels at all.  Why put myself through daily pain just to live up to this strange expectation that I damage my muscle structure (and probably end up falling on my face because I’m crazy graceful like that) because I’m attempting to balance my weight on a couple of 3-inch rods? 

It’s taken me 30 years to reconcile myself to the fact that - despite a societal insistence that high heels impart power and authority in women - in reality, they are pointless, impractical and they fucking hurt. 

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“Simplicity, patience, compassion.
These three are your greatest treasures.
Simple in actions and thoughts,
you return to the source of being.
Patient with both friends and enemies,
you accord with the way things are.
Compassionate toward yourself,
you reconcile all beings in the world.”
—Laozi (Tao Te Ching)
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January 2011

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#do one thing #humanity
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#mumford and sons #little lion man
“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.” —Oh, the Tao of Lady Gaga…
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“That foundation rested on our critique of what we then called “the enemy within,” referring to our internalized sexism. We all knew firsthand that we had been socialized as females by patriarchal thinking to see ourselves as inferior to men, to see ourselves as always and only in competition with one another for patriarchal approval, to look upon each other with jealousy, fear, and hatred. Sexist thinking made us judge each other without compassion and punish one another harshly. Feminist thinking helped us unlearn female self-hatred. It enabled us to break free of the hold patriarchal thinking had on our consciousness.” —Feminism is for Everybody, bell hooks (via splatterdick)
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“That is what I have always understood to be the essence of anarchism: the conviction that the burden of proof has to be placed on authority, and that it should be dismantled if that burden cannot be met.” —Noam Chomsky 
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“

Rape is only really rape if it involves force. So says the new House Republican majority as it now moves to change abortion law.

For years, federal laws restricting the use of government funds to pay for abortions have included exemptions for pregnancies resulting from rape or incest. (Another exemption covers pregnancies that could endanger the life of the woman.) But the “No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion Act,” a bill with 173 mostly Republican co-sponsors that House Speaker John Boehner (R-Ohio) has dubbed a top priority in the new Congress, contains a provision that would rewrite the rules to limit drastically the definition of rape and incest in these cases.

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And, yes, this is going on.

Let’s outline, one more time, the reasons why requiring “force” as a part of legally defined rape is a bad idea, hey? Because there are many. And let’s skip right past the part where many rapes would no longer be defined as such (I’m… really not sure how you redefine “incest”) and into the implications of proving that someone forcibly raped you.

For one, you have to prove force. Which sounds reasonable! But let’s talk about what it actually means. Used to be, you couldn’t have your rape legally defined as such until you could prove that (a) force occurred, and (b) you “sufficiently resisted” your attacker. So, for example, if someone attempted to rape you, you’d have to physically fight that person off, and lose the fight, and prove that you had fought and lost. Physically fighting someone off, if they want to hurt you, sure seems like a good idea!

Unless, you know. They have a knife. Or a gun. Or, even if they don’t: You have to get in a fistfight, basically, and you are probably a woman, and he’s probably a man, and this person is (by definition — you have to have lost the fistfight, remember) going to have to beat you soundly enough to subdue you. And this person is already capable of rape; it’s not a bar fight, it’s a fight with someone who already has very little in the way of inhibitions, regarding physical harm, and who could very plausibly kill you or leave you maimed for life.

I don’t think the Republicans are actively advocating the “if she didn’t get beaten up or mutilated, she didn’t get raped” standard, but it is part of what’s going on: “Proving” force probably requires proving that you were physically injured in some way. In rape cases which did involve force, where that was part of the victim’s testimony, people have tried to invalidate that by proving that the force somehow wasn’t enough to constitute rape.

One illustrative example: There was a rape case where a woman was physically thrown onto a mattress by her assailant, and in order to “prove” that physically forcing someone onto a mattress was not force, the defendant had to somehow argue that she wasn’t thrown hard enough. The question was raised of whether she bounced, when she hit the mattress. And in this case, the fact that the woman said “no” had already been admitted by the accused. The “no” wasn’t enough, and the fact that she was thrown onto the mattress wasn’t enough: She had to bounce off the mattress, for this to constitute either “rape” or “force.” The “did she bounce” standard — that is, essentially, what we’re requiring when we require “force” in order to define rape.

That particular rapist walked free. He was initially convicted, but the case was overturned by the Pennsylvania Supreme Court. On the basis of “did she bounce.” And this happened in 1994.

Probably not all of this is strictly relevant to the matter at hand, which is allowing abortion funding, but it’s something to keep in mind around the idea that “force” must constitute a part of rape; women are silent and compliant so as to survive the encounters, a lot of the time, which is why coercion (or age difference) are valid. If we require “force,” we require women to endanger themselves more, we make rape harder to prosecute, and, yes, as a delightful side effect, we end up ruling out the majority of actual rapes.

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///this.fucking.terrifies.me. —e

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“

For the last three years, the US government secretly provided aid to the leaders behind this week’s social uprising in Egypt aimed to topple the government of President Hosni Mubarak, according to a leaked diplomatic cable.

One of the young Egyptian leaders who attended a summit for activists in New York with the help of the US embassy in Cairo was detained when he returned to Egypt, the memo released by Wikileaks said.

The Daily Telegraph reported Friday that it and the secrets outlet were both hiding the identity of this young Egyptian leader. He was arrested in connection with this week’s demonstrations.

The leaked document indicates that the US government was publicly supporting Mubarak’s government while privately backing opposition groups.

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—US secretly backed Egyptian protest leaders (via ryking)
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“I’ve been noticing how easily and deeply we can affect others - how our casual love can catalyze changes and take away the edge of loneliness, how our casual ignorance or caustic comment or lack of action - just a tiny one - can cut so deep.” —Molly Flanagan
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“What an astonishing thing a book is. Across the millennia, an author is speaking clearly and silently inside your head, directly to you. Writing is perhaps the greatest of human inventions, binding together people who never knew each other, citizens of distant epochs. Books break the shackles of time.” —Carl Sagan
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“The evils of the government are directly proportional to the tolerance of the people.” —Frank Kent
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“If you have come here to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together.” —Lilla Watson
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why I love you nyc

Former Saatchi planning intern Nicole Brooker asked me: “could you give me specific examples of things that you see about NY that others couldn’t?”

I’m having a hard time with this one… what do I see when I look around NYC? 

I see passion and drive and millions of people who are intent on manifesting their own destinies - no matter how big their dreams - working tirelessly to build the foundations of their own success; 

I see people who are more open minded, more accepting, more aware than most, yet are busy busy busy, so may come off as detached and self absorbed;

I see amazing style that constantly inspires me and pushes me to reinvent myself as often as I my eyes peek open in the morning;

I see humanity at its best: helping to shovel sidewalks and push cars out of the snow, carrying an old lady’s suitcase up the stairs, giving their time to those less fortunate than themselves - and at its worst: closing their eyes to the pregnant woman who needs a seat or barely giving a sympathetic glance to the man bundled up in dirty rags in the corner;

I see more creativity and inspiration than I could ever imagine there possibly being in the world - artists who transcend the status quo - musicians and photographers and artists and performers and dancers that make my heart swell and ache with admiration and longing;

I see anything and everything you could possibly imagine wanting - no more than an arms length away - ripe for the taking, ripe for the abusing, ripe for the savoring;

I see the crème de la crème, the folks who can make it anywhere, yet choose to make this big, beautiful, wonderful city their home, their sanctuary, their playground, their wasteland;

I see the first and only place in the world where I’ve ever felt accepted, ever felt at home;

I see the youth seeping in, adding their fire and their brilliance, their curiosity and their passionate insistence - building the new skyline of New York with electric dreams and steely determination;

I see the place that I am beginning to whisper goodbye to - taking it in my arms, wrapping myself in its embrace and feeling the soft crush of passion and remorse;

I <3 New York.

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#nyc #loveletters
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NEWS: Human Rights Watch World Report for 2010 → hrw.org

cseasucb:

The 21st annual report recently released by Human Rights Watch summarizes human rights conditions in 90 countries around the world. The website includes highlighted chapters on Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore, and the Philippines.

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“Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect.” —Chief Seattle, 1855
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the writing's on my wall

literally…  like in marker:


“When we are doing our life’s work, we feel an uncanny sense of ease and alignment. This doesn’t mean that the work is always easy, and it doesn’t mean that it’s the only work we have to do; it just means that there is a conviction deep inside us that tells us we are in tune with our innermost self… We feel grounded in the world, knowing that we belong here and have something important to offer.”

-dailyom.com

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“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” —Anais Nin
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Sustainism - It's Got a Name, Now Do It - NYTimes.com → nytimes.com

digitaleskimo:

I like the term Sustainism – maybe we do need a new “ism” to rally behind (or perhaps Ferris was right and no good can come from any ism?!) .. though this article rightly points out the need for far more than symbols and branding.

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#commonsense #thankyou
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“Because our own human existence is so dependent on the help of others our need for love lies at the very foundation of our existence.” —Dalai Lama 
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“We use talking and thinking too much to mask our true inaction because if we put ourselves in the position of actually doing something we would have to deal with confronting uncomfortable things about ourselves and/or be in the driving seat of our own lives rather than place the responsibility on someone else.” —Natalie Lue
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